Lynn Soffio

Lynn Ann Soffio (née Settle), aged 69, passed away peacefully on February 9, 2024 at Stamford Hospital. She was born on March 19, 1954 in East St. Louis, MO to Herbert & Jean Settle.

A woman of immense strength and compassion, Lynn dedicated her life to nurturing her family and building her community in Connecticut and abroad, with friends spanning the globe from Scotland, to South Africa, to Latvia and beyond. Before landing in Connecticut, life brought her to Texas, Georgia, and New York—a path charted not by caution, but by the free-spiritedness and generosity. And through every state, through every chance encounter, she left an indelible mark.

Lynn was an avid music collector and, in her youth, a concert-goer. While she famously did not make it to Woodstock because her van broke down, she was fond of sharing her concert experiences with her friends and family. Her infectious kindness, sharp intuition, love of UK band UB-40, and delicious chicken soup with dill will be sorely missed, but her spirit lives on in the stories shared and memories made.

She is survived by husband Nate of Stamford, son Nathan with wife Tess of Philadelphia, PA; mother Jean of Columbia, MO; sister Deborah with children Bianca and Kyle of Conway, SC; and David with wife Shquita of Las Vegas, NV. And the family cat, Shiloh.

She was preceded in death by father, Herbert, and brother, Kenneth. And the other family cat, Olive.

A celebration of her life will be held at Cognetta Funeral Home in Stamford, CT on Saturday, February 24 at noon. In lieu of flowers, donations in her name may be made to the American Lung Association.

Lynn Soffio

Lynn Ann Soffio (née Settle), aged 69, passed away peacefully on February 9, 2024 at Stamford Hospital. She was born on March 19, 1954 in East St. Louis, MO to Herbert & Jean Settle.

A woman of immense strength and compassion, Lynn dedicated her life to nurturing her family and building her community in Connecticut and abroad, with friends spanning the globe from Scotland, to South Africa, to Latvia and beyond. Before landing in Connecticut, life brought her to Texas, Georgia, and New York—a path charted not by caution, but by the free-spiritedness and generosity. And through every state, through every chance encounter, she left an indelible mark.

Lynn was an avid music collector and, in her youth, a concert-goer. While she famously did not make it to Woodstock because her van broke down, she was fond of sharing her concert experiences with her friends and family. Her infectious kindness, sharp intuition, love of UK band UB-40, and delicious chicken soup with dill will be sorely missed, but her spirit lives on in the stories shared and memories made.

She is survived by husband Nate of Stamford, son Nathan with wife Tess of Philadelphia, PA; mother Jean of Columbia, MO; sister Deborah with children Bianca and Kyle of Conway, SC; and David with wife Shquita of Las Vegas, NV. And the family cat, Shiloh.

She was preceded in death by father, Herbert, and brother, Kenneth. And the other family cat, Olive.

A celebration of her life will be held at Cognetta Funeral Home in Stamford, CT on Saturday, February 24 at noon. In lieu of flowers, donations in her name may be made to the American Lung Association.

Joseph Valentine

Joseph Peter Valentine, Jr., 76 of Darien, CT passed away on February 13th. Born in Stamford, CT on May 21, 1947 to the late Joseph and Grace (Scalise) Valentine. Joe is survived by his wife of 55 years, Patricia (Barosky) Valentine, his brother Bobby Valentine (Junko) of Stamford, his children, Tricia of Norwalk, Joe (Kim) of Lafayette Hill, PA, Anthony (Jennifer) of Avon, Brian (Lisa) of Greenwich, his grandchildren, Samantha, Jessica, Jake, Connor, and Alissa, his brothers-in-law, Stanley Barosky (d. Angela) and Robert Barosky (Lori). Joe is also survived by several nephews and extended family.

Joe grew up in Stamford, where he attended J.M. Wright Technical School. He was the star catcher on the baseball team and the king of his senior prom. After graduating as a Tool and Die Maker, he served six years as part of the National Guard-Battery C 2nd Battalion 192nd Division. After marrying his high school sweetheart, Patricia, they settled in Darien to start a family. He then opened his own business, Joe Valentine Machine Company. Joe worked there with his wife for 47 years. Joe was a 3rd degree member of the Knights of Columbus Council 41 in Stamford.

When he wasn’t working, he loved spending time with his children and grandchildren, attending sporting events, school plays, and dance recitals. His motto was always family first. He enjoyed many vacations spent with family and friends.

When he wasn’t napping on his favorite couch with remote in hand, he enjoyed watching baseball, Blue Bloods or Law and Order. He was a Mets season ticket holder for more than 20 years but wasn’t a true fan until his brother became the manager.

Joe will be remembered for his kindness and generosity along with his willingness to help others. One of his greatest attributes was making friendships that would last a lifetime.

Family and friends are invited to visit on Tuesday, February 20th from 4 PM to 8 PM at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT. A funeral mass will be held on Wednesday, February 21st at 10:00 AM at St. John Catholic Church, 1986 Post Rd, in Darien, CT. In lieu of flowers the family asks you donate to either St. Jude’s or Shriners Hospital.

To leave a condolence message online please visit www.cognetta.com.

Joseph Valentne

Joseph Peter Valentine, Jr., 76 of Darien, CT passed away on February 13th. Born in Stamford, CT on May 21, 1947 to the late Joseph and Grace (Scalise) Valentine. Joe is survived by his wife of 55 years, Patricia (Barosky) Valentine, his brother Bobby Valentine (Junko) of Stamford, his children, Tricia of Norwalk, Joe (Kim) of Lafayette Hill, PA, Anthony (Jennifer) of Avon, Brian (Lisa) of Greenwich, his grandchildren, Samantha, Jessica, Jake, Connor, and Alissa, his brothers-in-law, Stanley Barosky (d. Angela) and Robert Barosky (Lori). Joe is also survived by several nephews and extended family.

Joe grew up in Stamford, where he attended J.M. Wright Technical School. He was the star catcher on the baseball team and the king of his senior prom. After graduating as a Tool and Die Maker, he served six years as part of the National Guard-Battery C 2nd Battalion 192nd Division. After marrying his high school sweetheart, Patricia, they settled in Darien to start a family. He then opened his own business, Joe Valentine Machine Company. Joe worked there with his wife for 47 years. Joe was a 3rd degree member of the Knights of Columbus Council 41 in Stamford.

When he wasn’t working, he loved spending time with his children and grandchildren, attending sporting events, school plays, and dance recitals. His motto was always family first. He enjoyed many vacations spent with family and friends.

When he wasn’t napping on his favorite couch with remote in hand, he enjoyed watching baseball, Blue Bloods or Law and Order. He was a Mets season ticket holder for more than 20 years but wasn’t a true fan until his brother became the manager.

Joe will be remembered for his kindness and generosity along with his willingness to help others. One of his greatest attributes was making friendships that would last a lifetime.

Family and friends are invited to visit on Tuesday, February 20th from 4 PM to 8 PM at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT. A funeral mass will be held at St. John Catholic Church, 1986 Post Rd, Darien, CT. In lieu of flowers the family asks you donate to either St. Jude’s or Shriners Hospital.

To leave a condolence message online please visit www.cognetta.com.

Ida Saunders

Ida was born April 13, 1932 to Pasqualina and Antonio Conte. Both of her parents emigrated from Italy and settled on Orchard Street, in the Waterside section of Stamford. It is here where she was raised and once married, she moved to Wells Avenue, in the Waterside section of Stamford, to raise her four children. We, the four children, April, Thomas (Bink), Jeffery (Bink’s Brother) and Marylee, being participants from the beginning, were all present at the end. It was a fitting tribute to a life well lived and none of us would have had it any other way.
Ida was a good mother to her children, sister to her siblings (Rose, Matilda, Mary and Mike), grandmother to her 6 grandchildren, great grandmother to her 8 great grandchildren, aunt to her many nieces and nephews, and above all, a good person to all. Her physical presence may be no longer, but the memories of our time with her will always be fresh, like they just happened yesterday. “Thanks for the pastry, Bobby.” I. A. S.

Carmino Santaniello

Carmino A. Santaniello passed away on February 13, 2024. He was born in 1944 in Quindici, Italy and immigrated to Springfield, MA in 1954.
For over 35 years, he was the owner of Santaniello Opticians in Springfield. He was an avid gardener, golfer, bowler, and Boston sports fan.
Carmino was the devoted husband of 44 years to Deborah; the beloved father to Adriana (Nicholas), Allyssa (David), Carmine (Emily) and Vincenzo and the loving Nonno to Ava, Linley, Evan, Alexandra, Alivia and Addison. He is also survived by his sisters Rosa Napolitano, Gaetana Basile, and Carmela Santaniello.
He was predeceased by his brothers Antonio Santaniello, Duilio Santaniello and Mario Santaniello.
Family and friends are invited to gather on Sunday, February 18, 2024 from 1 – 4 PM at Forastiere Smith Funeral & Cremation, 220 North Main Street, East Longmeadow, MA.
For more information or to leave an online condolence, please visit www.forastiere.com

Daniel Ceci

Daniel Joseph Ceci, 32 passed away suddenly on Tuesday, February 6, 2024, with his loving family by his side. Daniel was born on August 27, 1991, in Greenwich, Connecticut.
Daniel Ceci, a vibrant soul taken from us too soon. He was a selfless and compassionate son, brother, and friend. His unwavering dedication to others defined a life of purpose and kindness. Whether through small gestures or profound acts, he touched hearts and left an incredible mark on those fortunate enough to know him. Daniel will be remembered not only for his generosity but also for the profound love for his family and his friends. He had a warmth that radiated from his soul. May his legacy of selflessness inspire us all to live with greater empathy and love. Though the pain of his departure is profound, let us celebrate the joy and vitality he brought into our lives during his time with us. May Daniel Rest in Eternal Peace.

Daniel is survived by his loving parents, Luigi R. Ceci and Teresa Kozlowski Ceci of Stamford, and his brothers Francesco Ceci and his wife Brittney of North Carolina and Roberto Ceci of Stamford. He is also survived by many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Daniel was predeceased by his grandparents Francesco and Maria Ceci and Julian and Honorata Kozlowski.
Family and Friends may call at The Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Ave., Stamford, CT on Monday, February 12, 2024 from 4:00PM to 8:00PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 13, 2024, at St. Mary’s RC Church, 566 Elm Street, Stamford, CT at 10:00AM
Interment will be held privately.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in memory of Daniel to Rheumatology Research Foundation, by visiting Rheumresearch.org

Marc Pensiero

Marc A. Pensiero, 57, a lifelong Stamford resident, passed away peacefully at his home on Tuesday, February 6, 2024. Marc was born in Stamford on June 6, 1966, to Marco and Elizabeth (Craig) Pensiero. He graduated from the Plumbing and Heating program at JM Wright Technical High School and worked as a plumber for many years before retiring.
In addition to his parents, Marc is survived by his sister, Melissa McShane, his nephew, Aidan McShane and niece, Maggie McShane, as well as an uncle, Ian MacCabe and many loving cousins. Marc was predeceased by his brother Frank Pensiero.
Calling hours will be Monday, February 12th, 2024 from 10 am – 12 pm at Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, with a prayer service at 11:45 am. Interment will follow at Fairfield Memorial Park, 230 Oaklawn Avenue, Stamford, СТ.
To leave online condolences, please visit www.cognetta.com

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Targelia Jimenez

Targelia Jimenez, 100, of Stamford, Connecticut, passed away peacefully at her home on February 4, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. Targelia was born on January 18, 1924, in Latacunga, Ecuador to the late Abraham Jimenez and Amelia Mena.
Targelia will be fondly remembered for her remarkable strength, quick wit, infectious humor, and a touch of sarcasm that could brighten any room. Her life’s journey was marked by resilience and compassion, traits that became the foundation of her enduring legacy.
From a very young age, Targelia faced adversity head-on when she was orphaned and took on the responsibility of looking after her siblings. This early experience forged her indomitable spirit and instilled in her a sense of determination that defined her throughout her life.
Targelia’s journey to Stamford, CT in January of 1961 marked the beginning of a new chapter filled with hard work, dedication, and meaningful connections. She worked tirelessly to establish a foundation in the United States, laying the groundwork for a better future for her two children, Martha and Hector. Through her dedication and determination, she not only provided for them but also instilled in them the values of hard work and perseverance.
Upon arriving in the United States, Targelia started her career as a housekeeper and provided invaluable support to numerous influential families in Fairfield County. Targelia’s commitment to her work went beyond mere employment; it became a lifelong dedication to the well-being of the families she served. Her tireless efforts were evident in the long hours she devoted to her profession, often working seven days a week. Targelia’s work ethic was matched only by her genuine care for the families she served; to her, they were not just employers, but cherished friends to which she cultivated meaningful bonds that lasted a lifetime.
Targelia, a woman of diverse passions and endless love, will be remembered for the richness she brought to the lives of those around her. Her interests were as varied as her heart was deep, and she found joy in the simple yet profound aspects of life. Targelia expressed her creativity through the art of knitting, generously bestowing to family and friends many beautiful creations that mirrored the warmth and intricacy of her own spirit, and her culinary talents filled many homes with aromas of delicious food and the warmth of shared moments. And in moments of reflection and spiritual connection, Targelia turned to the rosary, finding solace and strength in her faith. Her devotion was not only a personal practice but also a testament to the depth of her spiritual connection.
In a beautiful turn of events, when Targelia needed support in the last few years of her life, her children reciprocated the love and care she had shown them over the years and embraced the responsibility with incredible care and devotion. Their actions spoke volumes about the strength of the family ties Targelia cultivated throughout her life which exemplified the profound and reciprocal nature of familial bonds – Targelia’s hard work and sacrifices created a foundation upon which her children could build, and in return, they became pillars of support for her in her later years.
Targelia’s love knew no bounds; even in her final days, she showed the true colors of her compassionate heart by expressing concern for the well-being of the family she was leaving behind. Her selflessness shone through as she reassured them, expressing readiness for the next chapter and encouraging them not to be saddened by her departure.
Her life, marked by the beauty she found in every stitch, flavor, and prayer, serves as a testament to the richness that can be found in the simple joys of life. Targelia’s love, resilience, and readiness to embrace life’s transitions are threads that weave through the tapestry of her existence, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of those who had the privilege of sharing in her laughter, love, and strength.
In the tapestry of Targelia’s life, each family member and friend held a special place, and her love wove a thread of unity and strength among them. Her kindness, generosity, and genuine care created a nurturing environment where everyone felt valued and cherished. These beautiful reflections capture the essence of Targelia’s remarkable life and the profound impact she had on those around her. Her journey was one of resilience, love, and unwavering dedication to both her relationships and profession, and she leaves behind a legacy of service, friendship, and love.
As we reflect on her legacy, may Targelia’s spirit continue to inspire us to cherish the simple joys, share love without limits, and face life’s challenges with the same grace and courage that she exemplified throughout her remarkable journey. In carrying forward the spirit of her unconditional love, may we cultivate bonds that withstand the tests of time, creating a legacy of warmth, kindness, and enduring connections in her honor. Que dios te bendiga.
Targelia is survived by her children; Martha Autuore and her husband Frank and Hector F. Jimenez and his wife Donna, her grandchildren; Elizabeth Kulish, Karla Sorrentino and her husband Nicholas, Jennifer Grant and her husband Andrew, and Christopher Jimenez and his wife Kathryn. Her great-grandchildren Ryan Kulish, Henry Grant, Calvin Grant, Sophia Jimenez, Brooklyn Sorrentino, Jagger Sorrentino. She is also survived by her sister Tarcila Gracia and several nieces and nephews. Besides her parents, Targelia is predeceased by her siblings, Rosenda Jimenez and Luis Jimenez.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Maurice Roman Catholic Church, 358 Glenbrook Road, Stamford, CT, on Friday, February 9, 2024 at 10:00 AM. A private interment will follow at Spring Grove Cemetery, Hecker Avenue, Darien, CT. There will be no calling hours.
The family requests that Memorial Contributions be made in Targelia’s memory to Constellation Hospice; 14 Westport Avenue, Norwalk, CT 06851.
To leave online condolences, please visit www.cognetta.com.