Jean Docimo

Jean M. Docimo, 90, of Stamford passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving sons on Tuesday, March 7, 2023 at Stamford Hospital. She was born in Stamford on November 12, 1932 to the late David and Irene Taylor.
Jean was a lifelong Stamford resident and graduated from Stamford High School in 1950. During high school and after graduation she enjoyed working as a secretary at Pitney Bowes. Later in life, after raising her 4 boys, she returned to the workforce at Stamford Adult and Continuing Education until her retirement.
Mom lived life to its fullest and was very active up until her 80s. On a nice warm day, you would find her at Sterling Farms or Hubbard Heights playing golf with her many girlfriends. She also enjoyed bowling and playing bocce. As an avid sports lover, Mom was always tuned into UCONN basketball, the NY Yankees, and the PGA Tour. But the most important part of her life was being a wife, mother and grandmother. She was always there when we needed her. The support and love she provided to her family will be treasured and truly missed.
Jean is survived by her loving children, Frank D. Docimo of NC, Scott Docimo and his wife Shelli of NC and Mark Docimo and his wife Donna of Stamford. Also surviving are her seven grandchildren, Frank E. Docimo, Jr., Brian A. Docimo, Christopher M. Docimo, Jeffrey J. Docimo, Taylor M. Docimo, Jennifer M.J. Docimo and Vincent G. Docimo.
Besides her parents, Jean was also predeceased by her husband, Frank “Hank” Docimo in 2012 and her son, Jeffrey Docimo in 2004.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, March 13, 2023 at 11:00 AM at Sacred Heart RC Church, 37 Schuyler Avenue, Stamford. Interment will follow at Fairfield Memorial Park, Oaklawn Avenue, Stamford, CT. There will be no calling hours.
In lieu of flowers, family requests that donations be made in Jean’s memory to St. Jude Research Children’s Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Place, Memphis, TN 38105
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Mary Serock

Mary Ann Serock, of Greenwich, CT, beloved mother, grandmother and great grandmother, passed away peacefully on the morning of Saturday, March 4, 2023, at the age of 96.
Mary was born in Hazelton, PA on March 15, 1926, to the late Bartol and Susan (Sobeck) Fellin. Mary married George Serock in 1948 in Hazleton and then lived in Bayonne, NJ to raise their family. Eventually Mary settled in Stamford, CT where she lived for over twenty-five years. In the most recent years, Mary was a resident of The Nathaniel Witherell Nursing Home in Greenwich, CT.
Mary graduated Hazleton High School in 1944. While attending high school Mary also worked nights in the Duplan, where she was involved in the manufacture of parachutes used by the American and allied troops during the war. While raising her family, Mary was a full-time employee at Maidenform, in Bayonne, in the role of lab technician, in the quality control unit, testing the materials used in the manufacture of their garments. In addition to a successful career, Mary found time to make everyone’s breakfast, get home in time to be with the children for lunch, and to make dinner. All achieved despite a mile and a half commute with no car to drive. The children learned a valuable lesson in dedication, delegation, and resilience.
Mary was predeceased by her beloved husband, George, and is survived by her loving children Barbara Roehl and husband William; Nancy Ferro and husband Anthony; Mark Serock and wife Rita; Her treasured grandchildren Billy Roehl and his wife Kimberly, Erica Moynihan and her husband Matt, Natalie Serock and her husband Alex and Allison Ferro and her precious great grandchildren Will and Cassy Roehl and Aidan and Eva Moynihan.
In addition to her husband and parents Mary was preceded in death by her sisters Katherine Potance and Rita Zelloe and her brothers Bartol Fellin and Al Fellini.
Friends and family may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Ave., Stamford, CT on Friday, March 10, 2023 from 8:30am to 9:30am, with a mass of Christian burial to follow the visitation at The Basilica of Saint John the Evangelist, 279 Atlantic Street, in Stamford, CT. The mass will begin at 10am. Mary’s interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to The Basilica of St. John the Evangelist in Stamford, where she was a long-time parishioner or The Nathaniel Witherell Foundation. thenathanielfoundation.org
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Grace DePaolo

Grace DePaolo, 89, a longtime resident of Stamford passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 4, 2023. Grace was born to John and Antoinette Macari Buzzeo on September 1, 1933 in Settefrati, Italy.

Grace is survived by her loving daughter, Lisa DePaolo of Stamford, her cherished grandsons, Lucas Lomanto of Stamford and Nicholas Lomanto of Utah. She is also survived by a brother-in-law and great friend, Ron Feulner of Stamford, several nieces and nephews, along with a great-grandnephew, Cyrus.

Besides her parents, Grace was predeceased by her beloved husband, Lawrence DePaolo and her sister, Winnie Feulner.

Family and Friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Ave., Stamford, on the morning of Thursday, March 9, 2023, from 10:00AM to 12:00PM. A prayer service will be held at 11:30AM during calling hours. Interment will be privately held.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in memory of Grace to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, by visiting Stjude.org.

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Patricia Vanech

Patricia Ann Vanech, a beloved mother and nonnie, passed away peacefully on the evening of Sunday, February 26, 2023 with her family at her side. She was born in Greenwich, CT on February 18, 1937 and was one of seven children born to the late Joseph and Mary Genise Strazza. Pat, as she was affectionately known, was 86 years old at the time of her passing.
Pat graduated from Greenwich High School in 1955. Growing up she was an athlete, performer, and a scholar. After high school Pat worked at AMF as an admin. She was also a singer, and her voice was angelic. She spent time singing for the radio, singing with bands, and creating her record. In 1964, she started a family with her husband, Sandy. She became a member of the Italian Center’s Women’s Auxiliary Club in 1969, where she was involved for years. Pat was also a longtime member of the Tamarack Country Club in Greenwich, CT, and served on many committees there. She was an avid golfer. She played weekly in the 18-hole Ladies Golf Group.Pat loved being a Nonnie to her grandchildren. She was their biggest supporter in all their endeavors. She loved her Yankees and Cowboys but loved watching and cheering on her grandkids the most. She attended all their games and was by far their biggest fan. Pat was a force to be reckoned with, but most importantly, she was an irreplaceable friend to many. Her love, loyalty, and wit will live on through her friends and family.
Pat was predeceased by her beloved husband, Alexander “Sandy” Vanech, and is survived by her daughters Debbie Vanech, Donna Coviello and husband Mike, and Dawn Bivona and husband Gary; and her grandchildren Alexandra Shippee (Bill), John Christopher, Samantha and Jacqueline Lehaney, Nicole Coviello, Danielle White (Travis), and Joseph, Jake, Jon Michael, Jefferey and Grace Bivona; and many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.
In addition to her husband and parents Pat was preceded in death by her son Jefferey Vanech and her siblings Rocco, Thomas and Joseph Strazza, Rose Pagano, Angie Ciccone and Kitty Iversen.
Friends and family may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Ave., Stamford, CT on Wednesday, March 1st from 3PM to 7PM. A mass of Christian burial will take place on Thursday, March 2nd at 10:30AM at St. Leo R.C. Church, 24 Roxbury Rd., Stamford, CT 06902. The interment will immediately follow mass at St. John Cemetery in Darien.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations are encouraged and may be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital at www.stjude.org/donate.
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William Michelotti, Jr.

William M. Michelotti, Jr., 32, of Stamford passed away on Friday, February 24, 2023. He was born on September 4, 1990 in Greenwich to William M. Michelotti, Sr. and Deborah Lynn Michelotti.
Will was an avid outdoorsman. He enjoyed snowboarding and time on the water paddle-boarding with his friends and family. He loved cooking, gardening, and fishing. He was an impactful and loyal friend to everyone who met him. Above all, he was a man that cherished his family and was the best son and brother he could be. Besides his parents, William is survived by his sisters, Cassie O’Connor and her husband Chris and Jessica Michelotti, both of Stamford, as well as his maternal grandmother, Linda Masciola of Stamford.
He was predeceased by his paternal grandparents, Louis and Clare Michelotti and his maternal grandfather, Anthony Masciola.
Family and friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford on Friday, March 3, 2023 from 4:00-8:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, March 4, 2023 at 10:30 AM at St. Leo Parish, 24 Roxbury Road, Stamford. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in William’s memory to a cause that will help prevent losses like this: Shatterproof, 101 Merritt Seven, Norwalk, CT 06851
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Antonio Pelli

Antonino (“Antonio”) Pelli, 87, of Stamford passed away peacefully on Friday, February 24, 2023 surrounded by his beloved wife, Catherina Pelli, their children and grandchildren. Antonio was born in the beautiful mountainside town of Arena, Catanzaro in Italy on April 14, 1935, to the late Dominick and Mariantonenetta Pelli.
In 1955, Antonio made the courageous decision to leave his hometown and travel to America by the Andrea Doria ship, so that he could work to create a better life for himself and his future family. Antonio set his roots in Stamford, Connecticut and immediately became involved with the local church and Italian-American community.
After saving up from his initial years of working, Antonio returned to Arena, Italy in 1958 to marry Catherina Arruzza. The newlyweds welcomed their first child, Dominick, in 1959, and together, the three of them moved to America on July 4th, 1960. In Stamford, Connecticut, Antonio and Catherina welcomed four additional children: Joseph, Frank, Antoinette, and Anthony, who tragically passed away as an infant.
By day, Antonio worked as a construction laborer foreman for the CeCio Brothers in Greenwich, Connecticut. During his time there, at the age of 40, Antonio suffered a tragic accident that disabled him and no longer allowed him to work. By his faith and perseverance, he eventually recovered from the accident and continued to live a fruitful life. In honor of this miracle, Antonio dedicated his life to his faith and family. He was a devoted parishioner at the Sacred Heart Church in Stamford. Antonio also enjoyed making homemade sopressata with his wife Catherina, tending to his garden, making homemade wine and watching wrestling.
By far, Antonio’s greatest legacy is his family. Antonio is survived by his devoted wife, Catherina Arruzza Pelli of Stamford, his loving children, Dominick Pelli of Stamford, Joseph Pelli and his wife Gail of Upton, MA, Frank Pelli and his wife Anita of New Canaan and Antoinette Pelli of Stamford. Also surviving are his adored grandchildren, Anthony, Taryn, Janelle, Zachary and wife Cristina, Tyler and wife Kelsie, Cassandra and husband Benjamin, Austin, Lucas, Faith, Brooke, Nick and wife Margaux, Michael, Matthew, Dylan, Ryan and great grandchild, Anthony, as well as his sister, Maria of Australia.
Antonio is predeceased by his parents, Dominick and Mariantonenetta Pelli, his son, Anthony, and two sisters, MaryAnn Arruzza and Felicia Figliuzzi.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, March 2, 2023 at 10:30 AM at Sacred Heart RC Church, 37 Schuyler Avenue, Stamford. Entombment will follow at St. John’s Mausoleum in Darien. There will be no calling hours.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that Mass Intentions be made in Antonio’s memory to Sacred Heart RC Church, 37 Schuyler Avenue, Stamford, CT 06902 Stamford or to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Pl, Memphis, TN 38105.
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Drew Karwosky

Drew Rhodes Bachman Karwosky
In the early hours of Wednesday, February 22, 2023, Drew Karwosky peacefully passed away with her family by her side. She was 69.
Drew was born on March 10, 1953 in Brooklyn, NY and later moved to the Shippan area of Stamford, CT with her parents; Allan E. and Florence D. Bachman. Her father Allan, was Executive Vice President of the Better Business Bureau and was the author of two books “A Guide to National Advertising” and “Do’s and Don’ts in Advertising Copy.”
Drew attended Low Heywood School in Stamford, CT and had a passion for horses and figure skating. Her enjoyment for the ice continued as she raised her children, and culminated in her involvement with Stamford Youth Hockey as one of the first female coaches.
Drew also had a passion for working with children. She spent the last 23 years of her career as the Office Manager at ROSCCO Stamford School Community Organization Inc, while simultaneously tutoring ESL, ELL and learning disabled adults and children.
Drew is survived by her daughter Karin (Mulvey), son Joseph David, and grandchildren Kayla Elizabeth (Mulvey) and Joseph David Jr.
Visitation will be held on Sunday, February 26, 2023 at Nicholas F Cognetta Funeral Home, 104 Myrtle Ave – Stamford, CT from 2:00pm – 5:00pm.
A mass of Christian burial will take place on Monday, February 27, 2023 at Our Lady Star of the Sea Church, 1200 Shippan Ave – Stamford, CT at 10:00am.
Interment will follow at Woodland Cemetery, 66 Woodland Pl – Stamford, CT.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Drew’s honor and memory to ROSCCO Stamford School Community Organization Inc.
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Genevieve Dembowski

Genevieve (Jennie, Jean, Jen, Genia) Dembowski died Thursday, February 23 three months short of her 99th birthday. Born in Greenwich in 1924, she was a daughter of the late Martin and Agnes Szczech Muskus.
She is survived by her son Walter (Tom Mariconda) of Shelton and her daughter Dorothy (Antonia Polcini) of Greenwich. Also three nieces, three nephews, and several great and great-great nieces and nephews.
She was predeceased by her husband Victor. Also four sisters: Anna Rupp; Victoria Zalewski; Josephine Rupp; and Julia Bruno. And three nephews: James Bruno; Blaise Bruno; and Edward Rupp.

Those are the basic facts of Genevieve’s life and death. But there is so much more to say about her.
She was the youngest of five daughters who, when they grew up, would be known collectively to many as the Muskus Girls. Her father died in 1929, just before her fifth birthday and about the time the Great Depression would begin. She and her older sisters did whatever they could to help their mother, who worked so hard and struggled so much to raise her girls during such difficult times.
Genevieve attended Greenwich public schools and graduated from Greenwich High School in 1942.
From then on until she retired, except for taking some years off to raise her two children, she worked as a secretary either full-time or part-time at several businesses in Greenwich and Stamford.
Working was a necessity. But “Good Time Jennie” as she was nicknamed by herself and others really loved to party and have fun with her friends. And most especially, she loved to dance.
At one of the then fairly frequent Polish dances in the area, she met Victor, the man she would marry on July 24, 1954. As had her sisters and their husbands before her, Genevieve and Victor lived for about two years in her mother’s house on Northfield Street in Greenwich while they saved up enough money to buy a home.
They moved into their own home with their sixteen-month-old son in October 1956. Genevieve would live in that house at 147 Knickerbocker Avenue in the Springdale section of Stamford for the next 63 years. But she always thought of herself as a Greenwich girl and a proud Fourth-Warder, referring to the largely working-class section of Greenwich where she had grown up.
In that house on the corner of Knickerbocker and Clearview Avenues, Genevieve and Victor raised two children with love: their son Walter and daughter Dorothy, who was born in December 1963. Amid all the chores and tasks they shared, they danced to records in the living room and to the radio in the kitchen. And Jennie tried so very hard to teach her two children to dance.
Genevieve and Victor were married for 39 years until his death in August 1993. Her life was never the same afterwards and she often would say how much she wanted to once again be with her husband.
But she continued to enjoy visiting or talking with family and friends while making new friends at several seniors groups. And she treasured time spent with CocoPuff, her daughter’s adorable cockapoo.
She also enjoyed bingo, cards, jigsaw puzzles and, for as long as she could, bowling. And of course dancing, even at her 90th birthday party.
She took great pride in keeping up her yard and was often told by commuters heading down Clearview to the train station that her yard looked much better than theirs.
She cared deeply about her neighborhood and the several generations of neighbors – especially the children – who lived nearby. And she cared about Springdale as a founding member of the Springdale Neighborhood Association.
A lifelong Catholic, Genevieve attended services first at St. Mary’s in Greenwich, then at Holy Name in Stamford and for decades at St. Cecelia’s.
A funeral mass will be celebrated on Monday, February 27 at 10:30 a.m. at St. Cecilia Church, 1184 Newfield Avenue, in Stamford. Burial will follow at St. Mary Cemetery on North Street in Greenwich.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital, to Adopt-a-Dog in Greenwich, or to a charity of your choice.

Jerri Lavoie

Jerri I. Lavoie, age 69 , a resident of Stamford passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family on February 22, 2023. She was born in Stamford on June 25, 1953 to the late Basil and Jeannene Duren Davis. Jerri was an exceptional loving wife to Donald J. Lavoie Jr of 46 years.
Jerri is survived by her loving children, Tina Pajeski and her husband William of East Haven and Donald J. Lavoie III and his wife Carla of Norwalk, as well as her grandchildren, Krislynn, Marissa, William, Autumn, Chance and three great grandchildren, Kai, Avery and Spencer. Also surviving is her brother, Joseph Davis and his wife Barbara of Danbury and two sisters, Judi Labbadia and her husband David of Hall, NY and Jean Davis of Stamford.
Besides her parents, Jerri was also predeceased by her brother, Jeffrey Davis.
Jerri started her career as a waitress at 17 years old working for Friendly’s Ice Cream. She finalized her career after 27 years as a manager. Upon retiring from Friendly’s, she found her calling as a nanny. Over 25 years she worked for 4 loving families and had a unique relationship with all of them.
Jerri was an AVID crocheter, as she called them “Hug Blankets.” Her blankets are all over the world and anyone who has received a blanket knows it’s a hug from Jerri.
Our mother was a phenomenal Wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She enjoyed traveling to Vermont and especially loved going to Upstate New York to visit her “Seester” Judi. Our mother was loved by so many and will be missed dearly.
Family and friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford on Tuesday February 28th 2023 from 4:00-8:00 PM.
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Frank Scarvey

Frank M. Scarvey, 78, of Stamford, passed away peacefully at home after a long illness on February 16, 2023. He was born September 29, 1944, to the late Pauline (Salvatore) and Dominick “West” Scarvey.
Frank was a native of Stamford and grew up on Connecticut Avenue where he forged many lifelong friendships. He was gifted with a quick wit and a personality that was larger than life and was always the life of the party. Frank was never without his trademark toothpick in his mouth. He cherished his family, enjoyed his Sunday macaroni dinners and treasured his Harleys and Cadillacs.
Frank was a proud member of the International Brotherhood of Teamsters Local Union #191 and drove a concrete mixer for Telesco, Genovese and O&G Industries for many years before his retirement.
Frank will be deeply missed by everyone who knew and loved him. He is survived by his devoted wife, Carole; stepsons James “JR” and John Meceli; his siblings, Jane (Charles) Dicine and Roy Scarvey; nephews David (Katie), Daniel (Shannon), and Sean (Sherry) Scarvey; Todd (June) and Scott (Heidi) Dicine; and his niece, Kelly (Vince) Puletti along with many great-nieces, nephews and extended family. He also leaves behind his dear friends, Charlie and Cathy Turcio. He was predeceased by his sister-in-law, Bonnie Scarvey.
The family would like to thank Frank’s caregivers with a special thank you to Simone Allum.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 25, 2023 at 10:00 AM at Sacred Heart RC Church, 37 Schuyler Avenue, Stamford. Interment will follow at Fairfield Memorial Park, 230 Oaklawn Avenue, Stamford.
Frank left us too soon but while we had him, it was wonderful!
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